A step-by-step guide for introducing a new dog to your family

It’s easy to dream of instant cuddles and tail wags, but the first few weeks with a new dog are a major adjustment for everyone — especially your new furry friend. The right prep is key to making sure the transition goes smoothly, and that your family and dog build a safe, loving bond from day one. Here’s how to welcome your new furry family member into your home.

How to prepare kids for a new dog

Before your dog even sets a paw inside the house, it’s a great idea to involve any kids in your home in the prep. Let them help pick out a new toy or a special bed, which builds excitement and a sense of responsibility. More importantly, talk with them about the rules for the new family member. For example, teach them to never disturb the dog while it’s eating or sleeping and to let the dog come to them for attention. This helps set the stage for a respectful, safe relationship.

“The single most effective way to prevent incidents between a dog and a child is to set clear boundaries and expectations from the very beginning,” Dr. Aliya McCullough, Fetch Chief Veterinary Officer, says. “By involving children in the preparation and teaching them to respect the dog’s space, you’re not just preventing problems, you’re building a foundation of trust and respect that is essential for a lifelong bond.”

Creating a safe zone for your new dog

For a new dog, your home can feel overwhelming. Imagine all the new sights, sounds and smells! Creating a designated safe zone helps them decompress and find a space where they can feel secure. This might be a crate in the corner of the family room or a separate room sectioned off with a baby gate. The rule for this space is simple but non-negotiable: when the dog is in its safe zone, no one should bother them. Think of it as their own private bedroom. To build a positive association, feed the dog their meals there or give them a special chew toy they only get in their safe zone.

Tips for families getting a new dog: the first meeting

The first meeting between your new dog and your family should happen calmly and with intention. A few ground rules will set everyone up for success. Instead of having everyone rush to the door the moment you arrive, conduct the initial meeting in a neutral, open space like your yard or a park. The adult most familiar with the dog should hold the leash. If there are kids involved, have them sit quietly on the ground a few feet away and ask them to toss a few high-value treats near the dog. This creates a positive association where the kids are a source of good things, without the pressure of direct physical contact.

Set family safety rules

For a happy, healthy relationship to grow, it’s crucial to establish some ground rules, especially for kids. For example, teach children how to meet dogs by showing them how to gently pet a pup on its side or back, never the head. It’s a natural instinct for us to want to hug and kiss our pets, but most dogs perceive a hug as a form of restraint, which can cause intense anxiety. Teach kids to show affection through gentle petting instead.

It’s also crucial to teach kids about dog body language. A tucked tail is an obvious sign of fear, but more subtle signs like lip licking, yawning or “whale eye” — where the whites of the eyes are visible — all mean your dog is feeling stressed. If you see these signs, it's time to give the dog space.

Helping children adjust to a new dog

The first day with a new dog and kids is a big day, but the adjustment period can take time. Managing kids’ expectations with a new dog is key. It takes at least 3 months for a new dog to truly settle in, learn the routine and feel at home. During this time, continue to supervise all interactions and be patient with your new dog as they find their place in the family. By taking it slow, you can lay the groundwork for a safe, joyful relationship that will last a lifetime.